The social media 'socio-paths'

There comes a time when people instead of taking proper step; they just point out the wrong beings around them, for which I have only one thing to say; instead of pointing better place yourself in solving the issue instead of pointing fingers, because pointing fingers do not solve anything, but sorry to say people have ceased taking PROPER steps.

Taking responsibility of Social Responsibility which impacts the environment/culture

This is another thing, earlier when I was a toddler, I used to see that my father and other elderly personnel used to interact with local authorities like when we had water problem and how those people solved the issue, the fruits of which we are still eating, whereas it was 19 years ago, now even if I relate the issue with today's scenarios; people won't leave the comfort of their couches instead just starting campaign, but the time when physical presence is required on definite, they won't wag their tails, this is the difference I (personally) have seen between last 20 years, I remember when I was in my matriculation during 2002-2003; things were on the different end of the tunnel unlike now which has infected us on the genetic grounds, because the hospitality of Karachi (since I have spent my childhood in this city; therefore I am only able to compare that Karachi to now), now I personally have experienced (not seen) the selfishness in the society.

The degree we own to get a better JOB

This is a main thing, because the degree we now own; we get on commitment that after we get the degree, we would at least teach two children voluntarily, but can we explicitly admit that we follow the commitment; we made for getting the degree because of which we are enjoying the lifestyle, but answer me a thing, do we deserve to enjoy them?

Selfishness we encounter on the daily routine

Instead of giving chances for someone creating a change, we explicitly pull the legs and feel patronage in something called roasting, which is nothing but insulting and humiliating others, because of which our representation HAS been like a گدھا / donkey/mule who speaks but speaks without thinking what we have been saying, otherwise our ancestor(s) used to take account of it on major, but now it is something worth as little as the sachet of the Chilly Garlic Sauce we get in a Quarter Broast Chicken. This is something I noted a lot because everyone feel patronage in overlapping others whereas previously we used to take account of completion of other person communication/conversation but now there's nothing like that; instead it is taken as sign of confidence/non-confidence whatever the circumstances, which is slowly deteriorating the relations/the society like termite to the wood.

Might is right

This is another thing; if I narrate the religion (Islam), it does give patronage to the senior/elder but it does it with RESPONSIBILITY, you are deemed to take responsibility for others' action and to act to reduce the catastrophe instead of acting sycophantically and taking sides without taking account of another party, yes; you're reading it right, the family system in Karachi at least is now based on taking sides which includes the elders, the youngsters are deem more to be infected with it but why in the world are the elders infected with taking sides of the particular child in the family, I do not have problem in it but the problem is pampering that spoiled child to that extent that it is creating discrimination among other child(s), does this complies with the teachings of Islam? Is that BEING the teachings/following of our elders' preachings? Think about it, we complain about discrimination in political grounds, but the problem is; it is prevalent on grass-root-level because even in our families; one can admit such things occur in our families without any doubt with minor differences in circumstances!

Taking the 'introvert' nature as a weakness

This is another aspect of the 'new-development' in our current family system/cycle; where if someone stays quiet while having the power to return-the-favours, but he/she doesn't, so in return; the society instead starts calling him/her an idiot that you do not know how to talk, where is your confidence. Confidence and Over-Confidence coincides a very thin line where in majority of the cases where we use the word 'Confidence' usually means 'Over-Confidence'; where in my own personal reasoning, I feel we usually lose an added advantage while staying quiet, but this current breed doesn't understand this, I do not have problem with the youngsters (as I am on verge of ending my 29s and entering 30s), therefore I have issues with the elders' who instead of taking responsibility of their offspring, taking side of them either if they are right or not right, and instead of taking pride in taking responsibility of their upbringing, they end up creating their offspring not as human beings but as a mule; a donkey; ass means we are creating animals instead of human beings, where are our etiquette, the responsibility and the pride we used to take in upbringing of our offsprings? 

Last but not the least

Pakistan is not going to develop anytime soon unless and until we get rid of the above mentioned 'virus' from our family system, because the country is suffering because of the product we had sowed 30 years ago; so this is the dilemma we'll have to face because this is our own mishap because of which the country is at this stage, in short; be a Muslim and take responsibility of your actions; instead of acting like Jews who used to place excuse for each and everything which was provided to them by the Almighty Allah. Peace Out...